They Feel Guilty of Their Decision We all make mistakes sometimes. Also whats with the empty promises.. Maybe his not planning to take me out anywhere not even a date. Treat others (even your ghosting ex) with kindness if you want to be treated kindly. Watch for everything Ive mentioned here and you should be able to tell rather quickly whether your Pisces man is actually into you and trying to commit or if hes talking himself up for something he wont ever deliver. Hi,Anna my name is Lesley,and I met this guy on plenty of fish a dating site,he had me to go to a site call hangout, he will text me, it may take 2 or 3 minutes for him to return a text then he may take 2 to 3hrs b4 he responds he is a project developer and he said he has 5 company that he take care of but I am a in hm aide so he ask me what I did for a living but I told him that it was on my profile and I ask him did he read it he said yes then I responded to him that he mad me think that I didnt meet his criteria and he made me feel that he was not interested he responded bk and said I am interested but we were texting and he stay gone for about an hour and some minutes so I text him and ask are u still there he said yes I was taking a shower I will get bk you when I get out I told him it is no way you can text me while you are showering and if u needed to get off the phone the only thing I had to do was say so he have responded bk but he will probably text in the morning maybe but we have never met one another we are only texting what do u think and how can I determine if he is trying to take my kindness for my weakness he sent me pictures of him and everything what are some questions I can ask him to see if he is real or fake? Im in Texas hes in Florida So we went a whole year of only virtually talking and we finally met a few months ago and became official. I even called him on google voice but was nervous to respond when he picked up because I figured that would make me look crazy. You may not believe in this sort of thing, but they surely are very intuitive and able to feel others' emotions. Then I felt really bad. My issues is that he alway like sex and staying at my place. The more you do this, the more gets aired out and maybe moved past so you both can be healthy. I texted him 2 hours prior to confirm bc he is flaky. and there were many things, he said perfect. You are an amazing woman! That will take a lot of work. If you need more help, check out my books on Pisces Man Secrets. If not then hes being selfish and taking time to himself after he promised it to you. When he wants to get back with you he will start by checking in on you. Through April weve been FaceTiming and texting non stop. Im a Leo woman. so I can hear your voice. I think hes just trying to play me still thats why I wont get attached but he calls me bae in text messages like he wants me to start giving him attention again. And now if I text him he replies with one-word sentences five hours to a day later on some days and on other days he sends an actual sentence 45 minutes later. This will aid you in figuring out how to know if a Pisces man is playing you. Ive been trying to keep him encouraged and supportive through his situation. Even when he is traveling he will call and text me all the time but lol where is my invite??. Once he's calmed down, he may come back and tell you he didn't actually want to break up. I told him one night I want to know. I feel stuck because he ended up agreeing to let me stay with him at his place when I was in town, and he seemed super interested in seeing me because he wanted to hook up. 4. If he does come back we have a lot of work to do and I want a clean slate. I hope you ca clarify this. So in the week I was like no Im not doing this anymore so I texted him and saying it, but he didnt even respond. He had his head in other places and breaking up is probably the best thing for you to do with him. Pisces men cool off when theyre dealing with lots of stress just like a Cancer would typically. He came with an excuse saying he was going through personal issues and wanted to isolated himself. So I send h a text that if he needs more time it is his Im not going anywhere and I also send him this very nice song. Get to know your Pisces guy before you commit yourself to him. Then we went to his home we made out and I gave him a hand job after that he was completely emotionally detached like I felt it very powerfully. If you need more help, please check out my book Pisces Man Secrets. We had been together for 7 years when he had tried to hook up with another girl, and I had gut feelings that he had tried to do it a few times before that. Then I found out that I was a Sagittarius. We are a long distant couple. This also makes you very suspicious of others and have your wall up. I feel hurt by what he said and take it personally. You wont know for sure whether or not he wants this because in Pisces man fashion, hes not being open enough with his feelings which is bad for him. So 3 weeks went by and I know he was back from the weekend with his parents where he supposedly talked to them about us. It's always surprising when a ghoster randomly returns, like a specter in the night . He has to choose so you can. he said he would contact me, he has my number. And he totally flipped out, and began to tell me, I dont love him, and if I cared about him, I would pay for his ticket. HE found me!!! A flaky man is a man that isnt invested. He told me he felt the same and things started to hit off. Don't get mad. Just an advice for all my girls out there: work on the relationship with your Pisces like you are growing a plant. Check out my books Pisces Man Secrets for more help! "I see the aliens have returned you to earth.". What should I do? Besides, do you want to be with a man who is constantly playing so many games? So the next evening I send him a text saying just let me know if you would like to call me. Hi there, so here is my situation. If he isnt being honest; he wont be able to keep his gaze on your eyes; hell look away and fumble his words. Id ask him flat out to see you on vid or youre going to going to any further. When a Pisces goes silent, something is definitely up with him. This is both a blessing and a curse. Also, this is Nevada again btw, that person Kohen that I have a crush on sometimes asks about my friend April. He also loves to sleep or his alone time, he will come to my house and just fall asleep, & I get annoyed but I dont say anything because I know he gets tired from traveling and sports. Tell him you feel unwanted or desired. A few days ago I walked into the band (which is where the band nerds usually hang out) and kohen and his brother were in the locker area where we keep our trumpets. Hi I did and we had sex, watched a movie, cuddled and he asked if he could see me. Capricorn and Pisces Compatibility - 3 years. You have feelings and youre entitled to express them. Yes, if hes sick and stressed then this will definitely cause him to be incapable of handling a relationship. Had 2 experiences with Pisces men and both were liars. They are a little more grounded than the male Pisces because they are more in tune with Mother Earth. Ive tried to walk away and ignore him, ghost him, but it hurts! Im glad you know what you do in case you meet another. When he acts flaky let him know how terrible it makes you feel, this may make him think twice about the way he is treating you. One day I told him. Then again, he could be testing you to see how you respond. Then my good friend Evan (fake name) decided that he wanted to build a little friendship with Kohen. This includes making you think hes telling you the truth when hes actually being deceptive. You should either reach out to him and tell him you like him or you should just walk away. If he says he doesnt then you will know that its just not going to happen. SUBSCRIBE TO MY SECOND LIFESTYLE YOUTUBE CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpYToEqxl9jxH6c-NtXMeeAJoin this channel to get access to perks:https:/. He tells me hes not taken me for granted but his responses to my supportive behavior are very vague if he even responds at all. Its just so confusing for me. hes an athlete as well. When the time is right, he will tell you all about it. he send me his picture, I know what he looks like. Are Pisces men players? Serve It Right Back (If He's Treating You Badly) Final Thoughts I later told him he was mine in a text. I wasnt embarrassed, just caught off guard. You are way too smart to fall victim to this and I am here to help you out beat him at his own game! Let him know that you wont stand for this nonsense. Ask him if hes alright or if something has changed between you. Ive been reading most of your posts to get a better sense of my Piscean man. We even had our first night without sex which was so weird but i didnt mind he was still very affectionate and loving also we didnt because I had come of birth control coz of hormonal issues so I think thats also a reason. He will make plans and sometimes sleep through the plans and when I call him out on it or try to cut things off he apologizes and trys to say that no one understand the things he has to do and sorry for pushing you away, and that I never had to open up to anyone so it hard and he tend to push people away. They value honesty and enjoy being carefree.. after I got done with my views, which were all matching his. If he cares, he will answer you and tell you if he still wants to keep going with it or if he wants out. Then he said, Wbu, what kind of music do you like? It was weird because he never asked me a question before especially after I asked one. Don't let this idiocy make you furrow your brow. You could be having a crazy busy. So I kinda rushed to leave and go home. and we fell for eachother. We started off just messaging each other through in game private chat and really got to know each other. But after that year for 2 years weve been in a situation ship where we would talk once in a while everyday and then have sex but no label. Next weekend came nothing he is busy with studies. Sagittarius (November 23rd to December 21st) You were a sarcastic ass. How difficult is that I decided to breakup with him and now i keep wondering what i did do wrong. I stay the night every night I dont have my son. But he flakes always tells me yes but never does it like taking me on dates he really doesnt initiate 4 play. Call him on it sweetheart. Give it time. Be careful sweetheart. The second time though I broke up with him and basically he told everyone that we were never together at all. Its absolutely necessary to see him on camera or in person because there are definitely a whole lot of fakes on P.O.F. He promised me more time and more dates and although his off season just started I dont wanna stick around and wait to see if these things will happen because I just feel like his intentions are good but his execution isnt especially since he told me he never really had a real relationship because women doesnt understand he doesnt have regular people time because of what he does so he doesnt know how ti prioritize good. i think my confidence intimated him because i have a very sarcastic way of talking and i think it triggered him idk. His character changed but he still cared enough to contact me every day. Hed totally shut you out. Can I please get advise thank you, because I dont know what to do. A Pisces man is motivated by emotions. Tell him what it is that you really want and then ask him what it is he really wants because you feel hes keeping you at somewhat of a distance. Youll get right to the truth and he wont be able to hide as easily. Please help because I like him. Ive only been with my Pisces 3 months. I am a Pisces and my guy is a Pisces (2days apart) what should probably be the greatest love story told has actually been an emotional nightmare for 2 years that i cant seem to wake up from. If he is telling you to chill out its probably because hes going through some things and hes overwhelmed. Pisces men can be truly wonderful partners, but unfortunately, there is a side to them that is so manipulative. Share your emotions; you'll be glad you were honest and open with him because a Pisces man is in tune with his feelings and wants to hear yours. Dont succumb to his manipulation by giving him all the power. We both were looking and wanting the same things. We even had our first night without sex which was so weird but i didnt mind he was still very affectionate and loving also we didnt because I had come of birth control coz of hormonal issues so I think thats also a reason. I need clarity. Libra men will show you they want to get back together by reminding you how amazing you truly are. Then 2020 he asked me temporarily if he could stay at my place til he got on his feet. Hello. And be loving and caring instead of full of hatred. Well for the past 3 years Ive been working on myself and trying to forget about him and getting my life together as a young adult. Its my pleasure to do what I can to help women understand Pisces men. They might not be the same mistakes but they are mistakes nonetheless. I dont get it. Basically you need to tell him you want to go out with him or you dont want to be together. And gave ever excuse we why couldnt! Incredible. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); My name is Anna Kovach, and Im a Relationship Astrologer. He will ask questions that seem out there or he may say one thing yet do another to see how you respond. I often get questions from my readers like: I have been dating this Pisces guy for a while now, but I can tell if he is leading me on? You have no idea how often women ask me this and I can understand your frustrations. Ill tell you its not like that at all! so he could access his I-pad, to get codes for his banking, to pay bills. How could things go from amazing to almost non-existent so quickly? Men that feel guilty will tell you things like "you didn't deserve that." They might say that they feel bad. If you would like to talk, Im here. I cant pay for anything online either so I thought it would be best to just tell you. Shortly after, kohen texted back saying man making me feel bad with the crying emoji. You simply have to learn what they are and what you can do about it. I never met a pisces man, or had a relationship with one. Read more about Pisces by checking out my book. You should know by what youve read here so far how a Pisces man tests you. Thoughts? And he had decided I am the one to spend his life with. It will make things worse actually. honestly i saw this coming but at the same time he was asking me a lot of questions about me and was staring into my soul. I dont think hes ready to do that. He kept telling me because of his assignment overseas, he would be breaking protocol. Hes so detached or scared to show he has feelings so he wont get hurt. Send him very sweet but light messages that do not make him feel pressured. I would suggest you learn more about Pisces men. He will be pretty obvious about it. PISCES. When I told him that I have feelings for him, he said he dont know what he wants and he just trying to develop himself. Most Pisces men are looking for their one and only, so they dont do a whole lot of playing. He isnt ready. He was more relaxed in the moment. How do I know the things he said in that message is a lie so he can just keep me on a string not to move on? No matter what he does wrong, as soon as you show any sort of hostility or anger towards him he will close off and he wont feel obligated to make amends. Instead of trusting your fears, you should trust your own intuition. Im wondering if maybe this little fling ran its course I sure would love to keep him in my life but the dipping out is just not something I can deal with. He would flake and we stopped talking then he popped back up and apologized. This is probably what is going on with him right now. Share your story (or situation) with our community in the comment section below (dont worry, its anonymous). Im sorry youve had a harrowing experience with yours but keep in mind that we all have the 12 signs in our birth charts. I did purchase your PDF file of the book. Check in with him sweetheart. it hurts my heart, when he berates me about money. As embarrassing as it is to say, a video game. No shock there. I feel lost is it over between us? We both broke it off cause I found that he was on bubble. Treat yourself with loving care and respect. Maybe with time that will change but right now youve got to accept just the friendship hes leaving open and try to focus on you. Why break it all up by telling him he needs to give it a title. Try to be patient with him. We finally hung out in July, but after that day, things seemed strange. It makes sense when you listen to any of his lyrics. He also asked my roomate if we were having sex, but my roomate is just a close friend. He does know I recently lost my job due to this pandemic and his always been so understanding and supportive about it even used to give me money for no reason and without asking either but that has stopped and I really dont mind Ive never asked for it anyway. You do need to keep the communication open and be sure that youre not jumping to conclusions or doubting him when he tells you that hes alright and you should stay calm. As if its ok for him to do it but if I did it he wouldnt like it. I think that you should stop talking to him. They are amazing but its getting that trust as you mentioned is what makes it last. I was still a bit skeptical and was not being completely honest with him because I didnt tell him that I have a daughter. If your gut is the one telling you hes up to no good then that may be right but if its just your fear making you think this then youve got to try to remind yourself of who he was before he left. Right now youre giving off mixed signals to him by telling him that its too soon to be exclusive but then now wondering if he has a girlfriend. I know this is long and full of fluff but I had to tell someone. Of course you should also always trust your own feel on it too. Blah, sounds like you haven an alcoholic on your hands. Please note I cant find that he has any addictions and he is very sporty. He told me he would pay me back, I was in such an emotional uphevel, I did not do it and backed out. 1. I just want to know if I should pursue this feeling of mine or let it go. Then a couple of days ago, he messaged me saying he is being sent for work training and wouldnt be back until the night before I left. Get someone that can be objective for the two of you that can sit down and help you two communicate about things. My Pisces man and I have been seeing each other for 4-5 months now. The last pisces that i dated seemed too busy for me everyday even for a single text. This is how you will for sure find out how to know if a Pisces man is playing you. I still get confused at times because reading some articles of Aquarius not being the best match for a Pisces makes me feel worried. I was still seeing other people so like I said did not focus on that. Are you upset? Its important you know all his maneuvers to find out if the Pisces man playing games is something that is happening to you in your life. Did he swim away because I didnt cave in? check out my 3-step formula for a Pisces man. Please dont write Pisces men off from your sour experience sweetheart. Pisces guy about a week ago via a dating app. Its fantastic he sends money back home and that he does keep in touch. Sometimes I feel like he is playing sometimes I feel like he is serious. When hes done, he will likely become quiet. Our relationship last year, when everything was good, was amazing. Women take a different stance with many things that dont go along with their male counterpart Pisces would agree with. we meet again at a family meeting he was tall grown and unrecognizable we didnt realzed we met when were younger until we talked he was my type and of the bat, I liked him so I started doing little things (flirting) but he also seemed interested and was flirting back then next thing I know I try to leave the room we were in the quietly says Then I begin to feel bad, we can go weeks without speaking even though I reach out all of the time to resolve issues. But I am thinking of talking to other people now to keep my options open, which is hard for me today as I am loyal. I felt an instant connection (Im a Taurus) He added me as a friend on FB and started PMing me not long after. He makes plans and visions us being together at all times. I am n leo woman with venus in Cancer so I am a kind, caring, generous and strong woman. Part of me says move one and let that go since he never responded. Listen to your gut. He had an awful time sleeping and kept waking up saying he felt anxious and when I asked him if I could do anything he said it wasn't me and he was just feeling overwhelmed with life and having to apply for some jobs this week and making his resume and cover letters the next day. Take note and understand. There are definitely some signs a Pisces man is playing you and tests that he puts his partner through. Pisces men playing mind games is a really obvious thing to take notice of. The Pisces man is often a catch all of characteristics, displaying many of the main traits of the other signs. I questioned him, and asked him why he needed such a large amount, he told me, but then later said it I was being too inquisitive, and asking too many questions, and he felt like the questioning was like a mother talking to a son. I told him its fine if he got someone else not in competition with anybody Ill take myself out the competition so they can be happy, but he just denied everything so its the lies that bothers me if he just told me the truth I would have felt better but he lied and that is what Im not fine with. I didnt know how to feel. 8 signs he'll come back 1) He ghosted you by mistake How can someone ghost you by mistake? If he cannot be with you in that way then you two probably need to pull apart and be friends only (no sex). He read it out loud and it said, dear kohen, I like you a lot, do you like me back. It felt like something stabbed me to hear those words. Ive apologized for our argument which he didnt on his part but admitted to being wrong about not telling mewho he was hanging out with. I told him that I like him, enjoy our time together, feel very comfortable with him and would like to get to know him even better in a romantic way obviously. How does a Pisces man test you? Hed just do something petty to get vengeance. Believe it or not, there are signature things that a Pisces man will do or say that will show you what is going on with him. well, Ive known this Pisces 4 years prior when I first met him 4 years ago he was 10 and I was 9 we were young and clueless Im a libra by the way anyways 4 years later!! It sounds like you need more work on yourself and some healing so that no matter who you are with, you are able to process emotions better. Now that you know; start asking him questions and see how he physically responds. However, he stood up a bit after to go outside and smoke (previously he did it inside with the window open), so I was like is everything ok?. I also asked him were do we stand after the intentions question and he said that we are working on a us. This is a super cowardly thing to do, but I guess it has been a very long time since he has been able to get away with this kind of behavior. Saying we should meet up and he will call me the next day. Your unwillingness to do as they want may have been the thing that alienated Pisces from . Maybe he is afraid to commit but until he figures himself out, hes not going to take a leap into a relationship. The 11th grader looked at me and said, wait you like kohen? He said he was on bubble to try to forget me. The flaky behavior is because he isnt invested or interested sweetheart. This is where I first met this guy named Kohen (also not my real name). Be honest with him and tell him you will not do this back and forth with him any longer and either he wants to be with you for the long haul or he doesnt but there is no in-between. Pisces men are really good at reading people, and they can quickly figure out what drives people. When Pisces ghosts you, it's usually because something else happened in their life that they think gave them permission to break off contact with you. 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