Cant explain it either. I to like to eat a lot . What exactly do you not like about his new belly? I think he has fetish for big woman . so he gets the calories and and resulting fat. Did your husband ask you to gain for him initially or did you just happen to gain and could tell he liked it and continued getting bigger? I talked for a long time and don't remember everything I said but the energy was, "I am awesome, I am doing the best I can, and my . My wife is very fat now I love the curves saggy belly think she is around 380 pounds. If you did get fat, how do you think others would react? My girlfriend LOVES my fat, too, and it makes it hard to resist her treats, her attention and her obvious obsession with my fat. I hate it. He likes to lay next to me facing me and push our bellys together. I got back into my seat, sat up straight, and looked directly at Jonathan. The same could be asked of thin people and some of the toxic culture and expectations around always being extremely in shape. Im realizing that as I put on some weight. Sophie-X. My libido has skyrocketed, we have more intense sex. There is only one issue that has become increasingly difficult to deal with: he is rapidly gaining weight. Its interesting to see how some people are comfortable in the club and others are fighting it. I think hes noticed that Im rarely in the mood to have sex anymore, but he hasnt said anything and neither have I. I like my men very chubby, so I kept feeding him up. Its going to happen regardless. We've been married for just about 5 years also, and I too have gained right around 100 pounds. =( I feel so guilty for enjoying this. Ugh, I feel dirty and guilty for enjoying it so much and doing sneaky things to encourage him to consume more. Same here. Speeding toward sex. She's 381 now; her goal was 375, but when she was 365, she moved her goal to 400. I'm happy and lucky. Exactly. Say yes and gain as much as possible. Next time you're hanging with a crowd of your peers, look around. You've accepted that you're now a fat man. 350 pounds is nice foundation weight. It does!!! Telling him that will cause nothing but resentment and insecurity. and our But when it comes to weight and food, I feel so helpless. My husband will eat anything, and if I put it in front of him, he will finish it. The lesson I took from camp was that people will only love you if you're skinny. Now that Ive become a bit porkier, she seems to be subtly but fully on board with where things are going. When I met my bf, I was 24, slightly overweight, and had all the curves in the right places. We all good now, an my man is real happy. Hes up nearing 90lbs from when we got married. I keep in shape attending to their needs. See what he says. My fianc is an attractive man and makes a good living. My beautiful wife was never a waif. My wifes been quietly adding bigger portions to my plate and offering dessert. My kind of man! Whether it is actresses blowing up after pregnancy or menopause or billionaires with bulging bellies inflating with fat. Im not into intentional gaining or stuffing. Just ask him how big he would like you to be. He always puts us first and works really hard. A: Let me begin with the easiest of your questions: This does not mean you never loved him. So even if your husbands skinny fat looks good to you and himself, he might actually be suffering from serious health issues. I would think she would want me to diet, but she is the one who keeps bringing home my favorite ice cream - Ben and Jerry's Cannoli, and pound cake, omg I could live on that! skinny fat is also a result of excessive stress because a hormone called cortisol would increase in the body, leading to insulin resistance and eventually fat gain. That doesnt make you a bad person. Nothing like a big hanging fat bag. His legs and arms are still quite lean. 2- If the pill is having an adverse effect on you or your health, you should see your GP. I love food, especially chocolate. Good for you. My ball gut is going to hang halfway to my knees. Its not like he doesnt know hes gained weight. Maybe your boyfriend likes it as much as you do, so he is not particularly worried about it. We have been married for 16 years and we have 2 children, 14 and 12. Yes, custom clothes definitely help us out, too. Say yes, and gain a few pounds, but don't overdo it. He is 62 and I'm 51. Have a strong preference for bigger girls, but the one I married wasnt. Plus he carries most of his weight in his tummy and face. My hubs says he will get me an aide for me. Can you imagine your hubby as a 500 pounder? Hes always trying to get me touching his belly or squeezing it. You are allowed to feel like it sucks. I just want to tell him, because it's better for his health and his self esteem, but I don't know how to start the conversation or if I should tell him. I found out recently that many of his past girlfriends were plus-sized ladies from one of his friends - high school, college, etc. she stood there looking in the mirror for a minute or 2, then declared, I'm gaining the weight back. She has known she's a type 2 diabetic for 4 years, and suspects she had been diabetic for years before that, but she's an addicted feedee and insists on continuing to eat what she wants and regularly having me feed her until she is simply too full to eat another bite. She loves to tease me with saying I think I need to gain a few 100 pounds and it's an honest statement because she says please feed me some more. From a purely physical standpoint, the softness feels nice. ---> Please note that whether or not you choose to order anything from our affiliates, this site is intended to help you achieve a healthier you! But that belly yuck. Pretend you're going to be late for something; make him run. I also love seeing successful people grow wider and wider. Both my daughters were around 80 pounds when they were 2. My gf compares me to Thiccollegegirl, especially cause my belly sticks out so much. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is sexy. MY fat boy! But once she had one, I think she was pleased with how I feel. Solely because of your wife? New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, Scan this QR code to download the app now. I know a person my height and size isn't the ideal man for many women, but I'm not giving up hopeor ice cream. I said I didn't want her to have it that she looked beautiful. How much weight has she gained so far? I just kept saying how lovely and sexy she looked and the more I'd say more she seemed to gain she has a sweet tooth and likes takeaway, My wife is a bbw 350 pounds love her rolls of fat that hang over her fat p**** and huge saggy t*** 44Ddd, My wife lisa is the same way 365 pounds she has fat rolls that hang over fat hairy p**** she also has huge saggy 44 DD t*** with big pink nipples, Any tips on getting my wife fatter? link to Fat people | My Husband makes comments about my weight. He is fully aware, Im sure, that his body has changed. If so, how do I do it? I'm 31 now, and when we got married, I was a 275 pound bride (I'm about 5 feet 7) and 22 years old. Both my x was bbw.After my divorce I found thick girlfriend not yet bbw. "I like my girlfriend's weight gain.". Mutual gaining is fantastic. Women not only liking but encouraging by over feeding their husbands. But the fatter Ive gotten the more she seems to like it. Unfortunately, your boyfriend is one of them. Love fat women, they just look so good. A Saturday evening with her dad, you're thinking . Her thighs had gotten skinny, from being very fat before, and the skin was all wrinkly and flabby. Well more and more breaks now as he loses his breath pretty easy now. YOUR KILLING YOUR HUSBANDS!!! One solid inch up several not-so-firm inches out. In comparison to what he looked like before (~150 pounds on that frame) of course he looks fat, but now he seems average like any guy his height. Lucky man fatten her more. I asked him if he wanted me to gain weight and he said he wouldnt mind a few extra pounds. It's never just "A Little". As for safely backing out, avoid your place for the hookups. We've been together 2 years and when we first started going out he was skinny fat. Oh yes. The doctor is concerned about their weight so we are trying to limit the junk food. He likes me real fat and say that i can keep eating what i wants. He was toned, in a good shape, with his 6 pack, not so musculated. For more information, please see our I met my hubby at gym. Dear Sugars, I've been with my boyfriend for more than two years. I have known him for about 1 and a half years, but I have gained 24 pounds. A good plan is to upsize hubbys tuxedo by a size prior to the wedding so he can grow into it. Has she said anything about it yet? Shes only 598lbs but she loves to eat and has no desire to stop gaining. Feeling that my pants dont fit anymore is a turn on. no dibetes or nothin. I had finally reached my goal weight of 98 pounds. The world seems to be headed in that direction anyway. He's intelligent, accomplished, emotionally mature, kind, loving, and funny. A lot of people have been facing worse mental health during the pandemic, but even though its pretty normal and common right now, its still absolutely worth taking seriously. Let her know how you feel. Plus he carries most of his weight in his tummy and face. How does she feel about it? After she had our son it didn't seem like she lost that much weight . Both are active healthy little clubbettes who take after their mom. I've never really had to worry about her not gaining--she loves to eat too much to not keep getting fatter. chapter 1 - skinny. He is supportive, intelligent, has a great sense of humor this list goes on and on. How can you not go along if she's eating and you're not? Get loads of people loving the pics I share of her. All the best to you and your beauitful, round woman. We are experimenting with feeding which I like. In the mean time, I'm just enjoying her massive belly and butt and great s**. Finding a feedee that is completely comfortable with gaining huge amounts of weight is a rare thing indeed. We's got preggo 2 years ago when I's 400 an I put on about 85 pounds. By the way I'm also attractive for men, I'm a slim tonified girl with a nice ass. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. Morris McLennan as a kid. She's no longer purposely packing on the pounds, but just slowly getting fatter from her normal eating habits. Its not like hes unhealthy big but after 20 years together he is about 125 pounds bigger which sounds like a lot when I type it but really isnt. He says he's getting fat, he said he's never been this heavy, always calls himself a fatty (and other various words), that he's gonna lose weight, he's gonna eat less, etc., etc. Definitely a large and in charge dude! I wouldn't mind if he did . My boyfriend is part of the reason why I have got so fat. But she still seems to love it, too. Plump is the new normal. They read something about being fat helps you think better or something like that. Iam very big girl now at all most 400 pounds and Ive been married for 6 years my husband adores me loves me am very happy and glad of the attention. I want to tell him, confess how I love his body, and I don't want him to starve himself. Like him I've put on some weight to. So its not a lack of honesty, its just that shes not ready to talk about it and Im respecting that. I am guess a chubby chaser. I know it's not good for you but I am having fun with it and figure I can lose if any health problems show up. Working out is when I feel the difference the most. My wife has been more aggressive in her encouragement of me eating. I made sure to wear a slightly too small shirt so it kept sliding up over my belly a little and I had to keep pulling it down. Now I'm a size 24 slacks and 3x top. Oh, and I'd grown one whole inch taller in those 17 years since freshman year. Women who approach fattening their husbands up like that are really persuasive. I put weighed on for him . 2022 is the year of the real fat man for me. Lucky man. How much do you miss being slim and skinny? She thinks she likes it like that. When Having An Affair Is An Act Of Self-Care, Karly & Deb Found A Simple Way Of Making Long Distance Work, Caroline & Nat First Met At A House Party Over A Decade Ago, Get Even More From Bustle Sign Up For The Newsletter. Just a few ideas. Good luck! There are three things that should influence your weight goals: 1. Awww, does someone need their bloated belly rubbed? I want to be a My husband is getting fat and I love it! Sorry about the title, but that's exactly what is happening. I started binge eating during the pandemic and I have been struggling with my weight. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. Slap him and leave. There are trade offs he needs to understand. 1,500 calories in fatty fast food is much different than 1500 calories of lean protein and vegetables. The things I've enjoyed, the ups and downs of fat people because I'm fat, and any advice and tips & ideas I've picked up along the way that has helped me and may help you. Is he feeling that too? Its not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! My wife was 170 and 5'6" when we met 20 years ago and she now weighs 530 pounds and I just love it and can't keep my hands off of all her fat. We always talk about how much does she want to gain and she always says whatever will make me happy so with us their will be no limit. I just love seeing someone have little control of some aspect of their lives. Can you touch each other more (gross sentence, sorry)? Im a big fat pig and getting fatter! He says only two hands are not enough when we make love. If it bothers you, you will always be mad atHim for encouraging you to pack on some pounds. The first time I saw him shirtless, my jaw dropped. 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