\u00a9 2023 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. If a spouse continues to refuse to get help, perhaps starting in counseling together may be a productive gateway to helping your spouse get their own personal help. Wishing you the best! Hes making choices and hes sticking to them regardless of how it makes you feel. If your boyfriend has a demanding schedule, make plans well in advance and commit to them. How to Overcome Long Term Infidelity Effects, The Art of a Good Marriage: A relationship coachs insight. Regardless though, I hope you find happiness either way. But theres a difference between having a particularly hectic few months and avoiding your partner. But, can we be honest with each other here for a minute? A motivational book is just the thing you need to boost your morale. To work with us, just click here! You have a life of your own where you have plans, goals, and ambitions. 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